idiosyncrasy called life

Life is nothing but collective experience through years. one life many aspects. In life we come across myraid instances that groom us to be the person that we essentially are. Experiences build your persona, add different hues to essence of being you and help you realise what a gift Life is. It is not entirely upon the individual the course his/ her life takes but never the less, person, his thinking and his deeds that mould the kind of life we lead. I am a firm believer in destiny and I agree that whatever happensdoes happen for the good but, I also dont deny that it takes active participation on part of the individualto help destiny unfold.It amazes me how things do fall in place when I least expect it and how it just decides to mess up despite the numerous attempts at not goofing up. Then I just think may be this is what Almighty wishes for me, this is how it was supposed to be and sulk/brood/rejoice and move on until am forced to think about it. ( to think of it, it doesnt really take much to enforce me to put my thinking cap on). I fail to understand why we dream and then get so attached to them that it feels as if your whole world is tearing apart when they dont materialise.I cant stop wondering about the tricks life plays with me every now and then and believe me the mind games drain you in away that physical exercises can never. Just when you feel you are close to acheiving your desires, life takes an about turn and there you are back to square one trying to figure out what, why, when and how???????you endlessly analyze that why u din get that what was rightfully to be yours.......Life is not a box of chocolates, but a bouquet of Roses with petals and thorns alike. I have noticed a pattern that is consistent with so many people that I have met in variuos contexts that life comes at you very fast. It has its own pace, ts own bumps.You are blessed, you are hurt all in the span of 1 lifetime. within the same time frame, youy laugh, you cry, you relish, you desistnad yet love the life that it is that jus a thought of not having it anymore is disturbing enuf to give u a reality check that no self help books or motivation gurus ever can........Life is but once, live it to the fullest....... make mistakes learn from them but never regret coz things happen only when you venture...............

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